We have a couple of rotten boards under our eave, and my husband is going nowhere near that! So, I, in all of my "we're-so-poor-because-husband-started-business" glory, have been stalking the how-to internet videos, convincing myself that I can do this.
It's easy to focus on everything my husband does NOT do & it got me thinking about everything he does.
There once was a good chunk of years where I was convinced that MY husband was going to grow into the kind of man I was used to growing up around. The kind of man both my brothers had become, the kind of man my dad and pawpaw are. You know, the ones that work hard and never get bored, and can fix anything, and figure out how to fix it when they don't succeed the first time. The kind who own yard tools and garage tools and work clothes and jumper cables. Those men know where spark plugs are located in vehicles and change their own oil. You know, all of those absurd things!
I later realized he would not ever grow to be this man. That's not who I married. But luckily so, because we would definitely butt heads. We are the epitome of opposites, and that's such a fabulous thing for us and our children. We balance each other perfectly. My kids have a dad who adds the compassion, laughter, calm, and patience where I lacked. He has taught me to laugh at mistakes, not sweat the small stuff, give people the benefit of the doubt, take risks, and love all all things .
You know, "make lemonade" and all those other "cliche" things.
Now, I've taught him a couple of things, too, but that's a whole other post!
My kids have a dad who loves their mother. Loves, loves their mother!!
They have a dad who does dishes, does laundry, vacuums, changes diapers, and bathes kids.
They have a dad who cooks breakfast every morning, waits for the bus, and brings them to school.
They have a dad who laughs at pre-teen obnoxiousness when I can't take another minute of it.
They have a dad who's calm heart can instantly put a baby to sleep.
They have a dad who prays for our family, cares about our health, and wants us all to live a better life.
And, they have a dad who wants to give them everything he has. Every part of him and every thing he will work for.
So, when he still won't fix a couple of rotten boards? I'll let that slide.